I have been married for 39 years,?

Do not get out after 39 years. His mom needs him at that age. Remember: His mom bear him and brought him in this world. In the Bible, God in the 10 Commandments said that we should honour our mother and father that our days may be long upon this earth. He's a good man to want to spend time with his mom. let him spend time with her - in her last days. try to be understanding, hun. Things will be ok.